Sunday, November 9, 2014

How to Romance Your Wife

If the thought of romancing your wife sounds a little intimidating, you are not alone. Some men are romantics at heart. While it takes a little more effort for others.

Well, let me put your mind at ease. Romance is not at all complicated. It just looks that way on television.

Romance is not about spending your life savings, it's not about trying new sexual positions, neither is it about whispering corney lines in her ear.

Romancing your wife is all about doing little things for her on a regular basis that show her how you feel.

It's about making sure she feels special when she closes her eyes each evening.

Trying new sexual positions is exciting, but you must understand that for your wife, sex does not always equal a feeling of love.

Believe it or not, your wife wants you to touch her and kiss her without it leading to sexual intimacy. For her, this always equals love.

Next, it is important to try and maintain a positive attitude with your wife. If you complain a lot, then stop. If you don't tell her after dinner how good a meal was, then start.

If you withhold your affection when she doesn't do what you want, the way you want, that's just plain wrong.

You don't always do what your Heavenly Father requires of you, but He continues to show you love on a daily basis.

His expectation is that you would do the same for your wife:

"Husbands love your wives even as Christ loved the church, and gave himself for it; " Ephesians 5:25

So, show your wife the unconditional love of God.

Do little things on a regular basis that show her you care.

Make sure when she closes her eyes at night she knows without a doubt that she is the queen of your heart!